Erotic Massage, Weekends, New England, North Carolina
We ask that all couples attending the massage weekends agree to a confidentiality statement.
BY ATTENDING THE WEEKEND COUPLES ARE AGREEING TO THE CONFIDENTIALITY STATEMENT.
THE LARGE PRINT:
"WE AGREE THAT WE ARE ATTENDING THE COUPLES MASSAGE EVENTS FOR PERSONAL PRIVATE REASONS ONLY. WE UNDERSTAND THAT ACTIVITIES AT THE EVENTS MAY BE OF A SENSUAL OR EROTIC NATURE, YET UNDERSTAND THAT WE CAN DECLINE PARTICIPATION IN ANY ACTIVITY AT ANY TIME. WE WILL RESPECT OTHER PEOPLE AND WILL ALWAYS COMPLY TO A "NO THANK YOU" OR OTHER DECLINE. WE UNDERSTAND THAT SEXUAL ACTIVITIES WITH OTHER COUPLES CARRY SOME HEALTH RISKS AND ARE PERSONALLY ASSUMING THE RESPONSIBILITY OF THESE RISKS. WE WILL OBEY ALL LOCAL, STATE OR FEDERAL LAWS WHILE ATTENDING THE EVENT. WE UNDERSTAND THAT THE SPONSORS ARE NOT WAVING THEIR 14TH AMENDMENT RIGHTS TO SEARCH AND ARE NOT GIVING PERMISSION TO POLICE OR THEIR AGENTS TO ENTER PRIVATE PROPERTY TO INVESTIGATE. WE ARE NOT ATTENDING THE EVENTS AS CLIENTS SEEKING COUNSELING OR AS PATIENTS SEEKING MEDICAL TREATMENT. WE ARE ATTENDING THE EVENT TO ENHANCE OUR PERSONAL SENSUAL LIVES." BY OUR ATTENDING WE ARE AGREEING THAT:
WE UNDERSTAND THAT THE WEEKEND EVENT HAS ACTIVITIES OF A SENSUAL OR EROTIC NATURE.
WE ACKNOWLEDGE THIS AND ARE ATTENDING THE EVENT BECAUSE ACTIVITIES ARE
POSSIBLY SENSUAL AND EROTIC.
WE ARE 25 YEARS OF AGE OR OLDER.
WE AGREE TO PROTECT THE PRIVACY OF ALL COUPLES ATTENDING AND THE SPONSORS.
WE AGREE TO NEVER DIVULGE THE LOCATION OR DATES OF EVENTS TO ANYONE.
WE AGREE TO NEVER DIVULGE THE NAMES OF ANY COUPLES TO ANYONE.
WE AGREE TO NEVER DIVULGE THE HOME TOWNS OR IDENTIFYING LOCATIONS OF ANY COUPLES TO ANYONE.
WE AGREE TO NEVER DIVULGE MASSAGE WEEKEND ACTIVITIES TO ANY ORGANIZATION, MEDIA ORGANIZATION, ANY PUBLISHER, OR RELIGIOUS ORGANIZATION AND/OR TO ANY INDIVIDUAL REPRESENTATIVE OF SUCH GROUP.
WE HAVE READ THE WEB PAGE "SAFETY IN SWINGING" AND WILL TALK TO OUR HOSTS IF WE SEEK MORE INFORMATION ON RISKS IN SWINGING.
WE AGREE THAT IF AT ANY TIME DURING THE EVENTS WE ARE DISTURBED, OR ARE NO LONGER ATTENDING THE EVENTS FOR PERSONAL PRIVATE REASONS, OR CAN NO LONGER AGREE TO THIS CONFIDENTIALITY AGREEMENT, WE WILL COME IMMEDIATELY TO THE SPONSORS AND TELL THEM.
WE AGREE TO NOT USE CAMERAS OR ANY OTHER RECORDING INSTRUMENT DURING THE WEEKEND. WE AGREE TO TURN OFF OUR CELL PHONES AND LEAVE THEM IN OUR ROOMS.
WE UNDERSTAND THAT A CLOSED DOOR INDICATES A DESIRE FOR PRIVACY AND SHOULD BE RESPECTED.
The small print:
COUPLES MASSAGE EVENT PRIVACY AGREEMENT/DISCLAIMER
~ 1 REPRESENTATION OF GOOD FAITH. We represent that we approach COUPLES MASSAGE EVENT and its affiliated groups, members and attendees ("the beneficiaries") in a sincere desire to learn about and possibly participate in the philosophy it teaches, intending no harm or disruption to the organization or to the lives of any who adhere to its precepts. In consideration of being permitted to attend an event sponsored by COUPLES MASSAGE EVENT we agree as follows:
~ 2 PROTECTION OF PRIVACY. We recognize that the philosophy of COUPLES MASSAGE EVENT may be considered controversial, and that activities conducted in pursuant of it may also, and we will respect the privacy of the beneficiaries, including but not limited to the following: (a) we will not divulge the identity of anyone we have met at COUPLES MASSAGE EVENT to anyone else without their permission: (b) we will not discuss or disclose in any way any of our experiences in COUPLES MASSAGE EVENT with anyone outside COUPLES MASSAGE EVENT, without the permission of all concerned: (c) we will not disclose the location of any place where we have attended any activities of COUPLES MASSAGE EVENT without the consent of COUPLES MASSAGE EVENT.
~ 3 PROVISION AS TO LAW ENFORCEMENT AND/OR POLICE OFFICERS. COUPLES MASSAGE EVENT understands that law enforcement and police officers have a duty to enforce laws and to investigate suspected violations of them, but that the U.S. Constitutions limit the rights of officers to do certain things without consent. We warrant that, if we are law enforcement and/or police officers, we are present at any COUPLES MASSAGE EVENT event only in our private, individual capacities. We warrant that, if the foregoing statements should prove to be false we are investigating COUPLES MASSAGE EVENT or its affiliates or members without disclosing our official capacity or, purpose and that our presence at or on any COUPLES MASSAGE EVENT event or premises or those of its affiliates or member, is an entry into private premises without consent, in violation of the 4th Amendment of the U.S. Constitution: we further warrant that we are here at the direction of our employers and are acting within the scope of our employment: and we further stipulate that any appropriate amount of liquidated damages for the illegal taking of evidence which results in charges, civil or criminal, against COUPLES MASSAGE EVENT or any of its members or attendees is one million dollars, which reflects a reasonable estimate of compensatory damages, the amount of which is uncertain.
~ 4 PROVISIONS AS TO MEMBERS OF THE PRESS. We represent that, if we are members of the press (including television), we are present at any COUPLES MASSAGE EVENT event only in our private, individual capacities. We warrant that, if the foregoing statement proves to be false we are here at the direction of our employers and are acting within the scope of our employment. Further, we stipulate that an appropriate amount of liquidated damages for any published report made without consent to COUPLES MASSAGE EVENT regarding COUPLES MASSAGE EVENT activities or those of any member or attendee is one million dollars, which reflects a reasonable estimate of compensatory damages, the amount of which is uncertain.
~ 5 INDEMNITY: applies to all. We agree to indemnify and hold harmless COUPLES MASSAGE EVENT, its affiliates and its members and attendees (the beneficiaries) for any harm resulting from our violation of this agreement. If we knowingly commit or assist a breach under 3 or 4, we are liable under the terms of the relevant paragraph. The beneficiaries may elect liquidated damages under those paragraphs or the indemnification provisions of this paragraph in order to establish the amount of awardable damages. The measure of damages shall be the same as in actions sounding in tort for invasion of privacy. The pursuit of any other remedy, including tort, is permitted in addition to the above provisions. The beneficiaries are entitled to reasonable attorneys fees, both for the enforcement of this agreement and for the prosecution or defense by the beneficiaries of any other legal action initiated as a consequence of our breaching this agreement. This agreement shall continue in force and apply to all attended events. The period of limitations for any violation of this agreement, including representations and warranties, shall not commence as to a beneficiary until that beneficiary receives actual knowledge of the violation.
~ 6 NOTICE OF COMPELLED TESTIMONY. We agree to notify COUPLES MASSAGE EVENT immediately upon receiving information that either of us will be required to give evidence in any matter relating to COUPLES MASSAGE EVENT. We agree to assert all available privileges to give such evidence, including this agreement.
~ 7 I/WE AGREE that we are legal age to attend an adult oriented function. Furthermore, that I/WE have presented identification which verifies our identity and age.
~ 8 I/WE have read, understand and agree to be bound by all the rules of conduct and etiquette as described in today's orientation.
~ 9 Date: , ______________________________, 200
Telephone___________________________________ Telephone ________________________________
Signature_________________________________ Signature ______________________________
Email address_____________________________ Email address____________________________
Now these are more guidelines....
All nudity during the day should be inside the house with windows covered. If nude, please carry a towel with you and sit on the towel.
Enjoy nudity in the hot tub at nights, or very cautiously during the day. Be very cautious about nudity in the kitchen, for here is where someone may come to the door.
Contact the hosts immediately if someone comes to the door.
Noise carries very very well, especially at night. Refrain from loud noise (especially sexual loud noise) outside.
Massage oil on feet will stain the carpet. Carry socks with you and wear them after you receive a massage.
Shower before using hot tub especially if you have massage oil on.
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